I joined the Army because I wanted to give something back, to utilise my skill set in a way that I couldn't do in a civilian role. I'd been around the Armed Forces for years before I joined, and I knew the services were a family. Everyone watches out for each other, and strives towards team goals. There is a real sense of belonging, especially within tight-knit squadrons, or in the Officers' Mess. The Army also provides the opportunity to develop, not only military skills, but civilian and personal development as well. Coupled with sports and adventure training options, there is never a dull day.

When going through selection for the Army, it can be very tempting to try and be the person you think they are looking for. That might work in the short term, but in the longer term, or when you are under pressure / tired / in command, that doesn't work. It is far better to be the person you really are, with your own quirks and personality, and to utilise your own skills and abilities. The Army can teach you how to lead and think tactically, it can develop your fitness and your endurance, it can't change how you start out as a person.